Recent Posts

Calming Down and Healing with Vagal Nerve Stimulation (VNS)

“Many Italians Choose Suicide” – People Need to Work

Why I Keep Pushing Forward – A Mother’s Story of Healing

My Story of Hope

Who Do You Choose to be Today?

Schadenfreude: Your Pain My Pleasure

Spine Surgery in the Presence of Chronic Pain – Mangione Situation

RUTs – Can’t Take Your Hand Off the Stove? Turn Down the Heat

Anger Manifesto – “Humans, wake up!!”

Avoid Surgery by Raising the Pain Threshold

I Took a Walk with Bella Today – A consideration of what we can learn from other species.

Stories of Hope
Stage 1 - Lay the Foundation
Select a step from the dropdown menu below to view the posts in that step. The steps are:
Step 1 - Learn About Your Pain
Step 2 - Expressive Writing
Step 3 - Active Meditation
Step 4 - Sleep
Step 5 - Don't Share Your Pain

Physical versus Emotional Pain

Healing Power Within—Warts

Mold Your Brain: Neuroplasticity

Unhooking from the Train

My Feet on Fire

My Midnight Trip to the Dentist

My Battle with NPD

Freed by a Pen

Neurophysiological Disorder -“Short Circuits”

A – Structural Sources of Pain

You are Not a Machine

Unlearning How to Ride Your Bicycle

Video: Anxiety and It’s Demons

Video 16/19: “White Bears”

Back Pain vs. Mouth Pain

Video: Memorizing the Circuits: Phantom Pain
Select a step from the dropdown menu below to view the posts in that step. The steps are:
Step 1 - Understand the Impact of Anger on Your Life
Step 2 - Acknowledge Your Disguises
Step 3 - Admit Your Victimhood
Step 4 - Forgive
Step 5 - Play

“Self-Esteem” Must Die

The Angry Meditator

“Finding Health by Letting Go of Hate”

The Elephant’s Noose

School or Prison – What’s the Difference?

Anger and Workers’ Comp Webinar

Anger Simplified

Taking Back Your Spirit-Caroline Myss

“I Am Not Letting Yesterday Ruin Today”

Labeled “Drug Seeker” and Almost Died

Anger-The Absolute Block

Maslow’s Miss

Video: The Myth of Self Esteem

“C”ing Clearly

Video 15/19: Anger Fueled Anxiety-“The Highway to Hell”

Enjoy Your Day-Today
Stage 3 - Move Forward
Select a step from the dropdown menu below to view the posts in that step. The steps are:
Step 1 - Commit to a Daily Practice
Step 2 - Create a Safe Haven - Family
Step 3 - Get Organized
Step 4 - Connect with the Life You Want
Step 5 - Create Your Vision

“I’m Paying You to Inflict Pain??”

Breaking Loose – Not Quite

Escaping Your Family – The Crab Bucket

Mastering Pain – Shuhari

STOMP – Structuring Your Own Management of Pain

Mirror Neurons—Family Healing

Protect Your Family from Your Pain

Staying in the Storm

Pain to Pleasure-Pavlov’s Dogs

Breaking Loose – NOT

Visualization – Holt’s Winning Run

Pain = Anger = Abuse
Stage 4 Posts - Expand Your Consciousness
Select a step from the dropdown menu below to view the posts in that step. The steps are:
Step 1 - Pass Through the "Ring of Fire"
Step 2 - Step Into Your New Life
Step 3 - "Failing" Well
Step 4 - Look Up - Your Spiritual Journey
Step 5 - Giving Back is Healing
Select a step from the dropdown menu below to view the posts in that step. The steps are:
Step 1 - General Principles - The Grid
Step 2 - The Source of Your Pain
Step 3 - The Impact of Stress on Your Pain and Decision-making
Step 4 - Understanding the Magnitude of the Surgery
Step 5 - Making the Final Surgical Decision
Step 6 - Stories of Surgical Despair
Stage 6 Posts - Procedures
Select a step from the dropdown menu below to view the posts in that step. The steps are:
Step 1 - General Considerations: Magnitude vs. Benefit
Step 2 - Decompressions
Step 3 - Lumbar Fusions
Step 4 - Deformity Surgery
Step 5 - Other Spine Surgeries
Step 6 - Stories of Surgical Despair
Important Posts
Expressive Arts Posts
Other Posts
- RUTs – Can’t Take Your Hand Off the Stove? Turn Down the Heat
- Stories of Hope
- We have no protection from mental pain
- Create a Safe Haven – Family
- Accept the Gift of Consciousness – Choice
- Threat Physiology Can’t be Controlled with Behavioral Approaches
- Mental Rigidity – A Core Trait of Many Mental Health Diagnoses
- The Popcorn Machine – Healing RUTS
- Make the Right Decision About Spine Surgery – The Grid
- Everyone Needs Support
- The “Five E’s” of Chronic Pain
- Video 14/19: Chronic Pain: Pain Free is Not Only Possible, it’s Probable.
- Compassion and an Italian Dinner
- Video 8/19: Fusions For LBP Don’t Work
- Problems are Opportunities
- Video 7/19: The Catastrophe Index
- Examiners from the Worker’s Perspective
- Video 4/19: Listen When Your Surgeon Says “No”
- Arm the Worker
- Video 8 of 19: Finding the Source of The Pain
- Video 5 of 19: An Alternative Approach to Chronic Pain & Spine Surgery
- It Really is Upside Down
- “I Want to Believe”
- The Catastrophe Index
- Your Doctor Might Not be Listening
- Worsening Prognosis with Time Off of Work
- Two Kinds of Anger
- Anger Affecting Nerve Pain
- Stress Management Overview
- How am I Going to Get There?
- Where am I Going?
- Where am I?
- Setting Goals with Three Questions
- Anti-Spasm
- Anti-depressants
- Anti-seizure
- Anti-anxiety
- Non-Narcotics
- Narcotics
- Medication Management
Click a Show Section button below to view the posts in that section.
Section 1 - Overview of RUTs
Section 2 - Solving RUTs
Section 3 - The Evolution of RUTs
Section 4 - Consequences of RUTs