Recent Posts
28 Surgeries–”I elected to not be in pain”
Science has the Answer to the Opioid Epidemic – Is anyone listening?
With every word I release, I free my heart and return to myself.
Suicide – A Horrible Way to Escape from Pain
Be Heard to Heal
Evolution of the DOC Framework
Begin Your Healing Journey at Home
Honoring Loss by Living
Create a Safe Haven – Family
Let’s Wake Up
The Gift of Pain – Thanksgiving 2013
“I Want to Believe”
Stage 1 - Lay the Foundation
Select a step from the dropdown menu below to view the posts in that step. The steps are:
Step 1 - Learn About Your Pain
Step 2 - Expressive Writing
Step 3 - Active Meditation
Step 4 - Sleep
Step 5 - Don't Share Your Pain
Directly Calming the Threat Response
Principles of Solving Chronic Pain
Essence of Illness
Clarifying the New IASP Definition of Chronic Pain
Anxiety is the Correct Name for Pain
Reprogram your Brain Around Pain
Smell the Peppermint–Safe or Unsafe
This COVID-19 Pandemic is Solvable–NOW
Anxiety is a Symptom – Not a Diagnosis
Depression is Anxiety
Pain Sensitization – A Frayed Wire
My Cat has Irritable Bowel Syndrome?
Anxiety Basics
Married 40 years – What Worked?
The Magic of Medical Hypnosis
Healing Begins at Home – The DOC Journey Starting Point
Select a step from the dropdown menu below to view the posts in that step. The steps are:
Step 1 - Understand the Impact of Anger on Your Life
Step 2 - Acknowledge Your Disguises
Step 3 - Admit Your Victimhood
Step 4 - Choose Not to Remain a Victim
Step 5 - Forgive
Step 6 - Play
Forgiveness–The Continental Divide of Freedom and Hell
Bullying is Assault and Should be treated as Such
Forgiveness as a Habit
Is your Recreation “Wreck Creation?”
Forgiveness is a Learned Skill–and a Power Move
When I Dance – Omega 2019
Trapped – I Know How Gulliver Must Have Felt
No Action in a Reaction – Part 2
“But I’m Not Angry”
Escaping the Abyss – Which One??
Wake the Fun up!!
Chronic Pain is Solvable -Take Back Your Life
Omega 2017: Awareness, Hope, Forgiveness and Play
Your Unconscious Brain
Society’s Pain and World Peace
Out of the Valley, with Dolls
Stage 3 - Move Forward
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Step 1 - Commit to a Daily Practice
Step 2 - Create a Safe Haven - Family
Step 3 - Get Organized
Step 4 - Connect with the Life You Want
Step 5 - Create Your Vision
You Have to Feel to Heal – Emotional Awareness
Connecting to Life with Your Senses – Environmental Awareness
Flip Your Consciousness – 4 Types of Awareness
Becoming Aware of Being Unaware
Awareness – The Starting Point for Deep Healing
Taking Control – The Eye of the Storm
Become a Genius at Solving Pain
Plan A–Lowering Inflammation Lengthens Life
Negative Messages to Your Brain
People – The Most Powerful Part of The DOC Journey
The Guided Course of “The DOC Journey”
Awareness–Ingrained Patterns
Develop a “Family Business” Business Plan
Decreasing Your Stress Chemicals (Anxiety)
Relationships and Rock Tumblers
Holiday Landmines – Your Family
Stage 4 Posts - Expand Your Consciousness
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Step 1 - Pass Through the "Ring of Fire"
Step 2 - Step Into Your New Life
Step 3 - "Failing" Well
Step 4 - Look Up - Your Spiritual Journey
Step 5 - Giving Back is Healing
“The Bottom”
Beyond Forgiveness–Compassion for Those Who Hurt You
The Gift of Hope – “This Might Hurt”
Success is a “Story”
Moving Forward – A New Horizon
“Dying” Before Living
Learn Another Language – “An Enjoyable Life”
Anxiety with Success
Healing With Support from her Community
Compassion
Harnessing the Body’s Healing Power
How Much Suffering Can You Take?
Remarkable Healing Stories – Dr. Bernie Siegel
Mental or physical health – Which is more Critical?
Anger: Damage Control
Select a step from the dropdown menu below to view the posts in that step. The steps are:
Step 1 - General Principles - The Grid
Step 2 - The Source of Your Pain
Step 3 - The Impact of Stress on Your Pain and Decision-making
Step 4 - Understanding the Magnitude of the Surgery
Step 5 - Making the Final Surgical Decision
Step 6 - Stories of Surgical Despair
Think Twice About Spinal Surgery
Video: I Can Only Fix What I Can See
Video: Surgeons Do What They are Trained to Do
Surgical Results Overly Optimistic
Indications for Surgery
Anger Altering a Surgical Decision
Stage 6 Posts - Procedures
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Step 1 - General Considerations: Magnitude vs. Benefit
Step 2 - Decompressions
Step 3 - Lumbar Fusions
Step 4 - Deformity Surgery
Step 5 - Other Spine Surgeries
Step 6 - Stories of Surgical Despair
Important Posts
Using New Tools to Reclaim My Life
A Little Merrier Christmas – Letting Go of Blame
Life Sentence
Chronic Pain is Solvable -Take Back Your Life
Healing With Support from her Community
Out of the Valley, with Dolls
Out of the Abyss After 25 Years
Remarkable Healing Stories – Dr. Bernie Siegel
The Enlightenment Light and Judgment Mirror
The Power of Love – Anthony
Never Give Up – Breaking Through After Six Years
To Become Strong – “ILOHLA”
My Migraines
Can Your Body Language Change Chronic Pain?
Leg Pain Gone with NPD Principles-Carol’s Story
“Finding Health by Letting Go of Hate”
Other Posts
- Falling in Love
- Create a Safe Haven – Family
- “I Want to Believe”
- Understand RUTs (Repetitive Unwanted Thoughts) and Solve Them
- RUTs – Can’t Take Your Hand Off the Stove? Turn Down the Heat
- Stories of Hope
- We have no protection from mental pain
- Accept the Gift of Consciousness – Choice
- Threat Physiology Can’t be Controlled with Behavioral Approaches
- Mental Rigidity – A Core Trait of Many Mental Health Diagnoses
- The Popcorn Machine – Healing RUTS
- Make the Right Decision About Spine Surgery – The Grid
- Everyone Needs Support
- The “Five E’s” of Chronic Pain
- Video 14/19: Chronic Pain: Pain Free is Not Only Possible, it’s Probable.
- Compassion and an Italian Dinner
- Video 8/19: Fusions For LBP Don’t Work
- Problems are Opportunities
- Video 7/19: The Catastrophe Index
- Examiners from the Worker’s Perspective
- Video 4/19: Listen When Your Surgeon Says “No”
- Arm the Worker
- Video 8 of 19: Finding the Source of The Pain
- Video 5 of 19: An Alternative Approach to Chronic Pain & Spine Surgery
- It Really is Upside Down
- The Catastrophe Index
- Your Doctor Might Not be Listening
- Worsening Prognosis with Time Off of Work
- Two Kinds of Anger
- Anger Affecting Nerve Pain
- Stress Management Overview
- How am I Going to Get There?
- Where am I Going?
- Where am I?
- Setting Goals with Three Questions
- Anti-Spasm
- Anti-depressants
- Anti-seizure
- Anti-anxiety
- Non-Narcotics
- Narcotics
- Medication Management
Click a Show Section button below to view the posts in that section.
Section 1 - Overview of RUTs
Section 2 - Solving RUTs
Section 3 - The Evolution of RUTs
Section 4 - Consequences of RUTs
Let's Wake Up
Falling in Love
Honoring Loss by Living





























