Recent Posts

Calming Down and Healing with Vagal Nerve Stimulation (VNS)

“Many Italians Choose Suicide” – People Need to Work

Why I Keep Pushing Forward – A Mother’s Story of Healing

My Story of Hope

Who Do You Choose to be Today?

Schadenfreude: Your Pain My Pleasure

Spine Surgery in the Presence of Chronic Pain – Mangione Situation

RUTs – Can’t Take Your Hand Off the Stove? Turn Down the Heat

Anger Manifesto – “Humans, wake up!!”

Avoid Surgery by Raising the Pain Threshold

I Took a Walk with Bella Today – A consideration of what we can learn from other species.

Stories of Hope
Stage 1 - Lay the Foundation
Select a step from the dropdown menu below to view the posts in that step. The steps are:
Step 1 - Learn About Your Pain
Step 2 - Expressive Writing
Step 3 - Active Meditation
Step 4 - Sleep
Step 5 - Don't Share Your Pain

This COVID-19 Pandemic is Solvable–NOW

Evolution of the DOC Project

Anxiety is a Symptom – Not a Diagnosis

Depression is Anxiety

Pain Sensitization – A Frayed Wire

My Cat has Irritable Bowel Syndrome?

Anxiety Basics

Married 40 years – What Worked?

The Magic of Medical Hypnosis

Healing Begins at Home – The DOC Journey Starting Point

Begin Your Healing Journey at Home

More on Expressive Writing

Extreme Mental Pain – OCD

Not Sharing Your Pain – Omega

Sharing My Pain

“This is going to hurt”
Select a step from the dropdown menu below to view the posts in that step. The steps are:
Step 1 - Understand the Impact of Anger on Your Life
Step 2 - Acknowledge Your Disguises
Step 3 - Admit Your Victimhood
Step 4 - Forgive
Step 5 - Play

Is your Recreation “Wreck Creation?”

Forgiveness is a Learned Skill–and a Power Move

When I Dance – Omega 2019

Trapped – I Know How Gulliver Must Have Felt

No Action in a Reaction – Part 2

“But I’m Not Angry”

Escaping the Abyss – Which One??

Wake the Fun up!!

Chronic Pain is Solvable -Take Back Your Life

Omega 2017: Awareness, Hope, Forgiveness and Play

Your Unconscious Brain

Society’s Pain and World Peace

Out of the Valley, with Dolls

Awareness, Hope, Forgiveness and Play

The “Benefits” of Becoming Disabled

Rigid Thinking – “Make America Great Again”
Stage 3 - Move Forward
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Step 1 - Commit to a Daily Practice
Step 2 - Create a Safe Haven - Family
Step 3 - Get Organized
Step 4 - Connect with the Life You Want
Step 5 - Create Your Vision

Connecting to Life with Your Senses – Environmental Awareness

Flip Your Consciousness – 4 Types of Awareness

Becoming Aware of Being Unaware

Awareness – The Starting Point for Deep Healing

Taking Control – The Eye of the Storm

Become a Genius at Solving Pain

Plan A–Lowering Inflammation Lengthens Life

Negative Messages to Your Brain

People – The Most Powerful Part of The DOC Journey

The Guided Course of “The DOC Journey”

Awareness–Ingrained Patterns

Develop a “Family Business” Business Plan

Decreasing Your Stress Chemicals (Anxiety)

Relationships and Rock Tumblers

Holiday Landmines – Your Family

A Couple Re-united
Stage 4 Posts - Expand Your Consciousness
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Step 1 - Pass Through the "Ring of Fire"
Step 2 - Step Into Your New Life
Step 3 - "Failing" Well
Step 4 - Look Up - Your Spiritual Journey
Step 5 - Giving Back is Healing

Moving Forward – A New Horizon

“Dying” Before Living

Learn Another Language – “An Enjoyable Life”

Anxiety with Success

Healing With Support from her Community

Compassion

Harnessing the Body’s Healing Power

How Much Suffering Can You Take?

Remarkable Healing Stories – Dr. Bernie Siegel

Mental or physical health – Which is more Critical?

Anger: Damage Control

The Gift of Pain – Thanksgiving 2013

The KKK and a Spiritual Journey

The First and Last Day of School

Video: Standard Stress Skills Inadequate
Select a step from the dropdown menu below to view the posts in that step. The steps are:
Step 1 - General Principles - The Grid
Step 2 - The Source of Your Pain
Step 3 - The Impact of Stress on Your Pain and Decision-making
Step 4 - Understanding the Magnitude of the Surgery
Step 5 - Making the Final Surgical Decision
Step 6 - Stories of Surgical Despair

Think Twice About Spinal Surgery

Video: I Can Only Fix What I Can See

Video: Surgeons Do What They are Trained to Do

Surgical Results Overly Optimistic
Indications for Surgery

Anger Altering a Surgical Decision
Stage 6 Posts - Procedures
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Step 1 - General Considerations: Magnitude vs. Benefit
Step 2 - Decompressions
Step 3 - Lumbar Fusions
Step 4 - Deformity Surgery
Step 5 - Other Spine Surgeries
Step 6 - Stories of Surgical Despair
Important Posts

Healing With Support from her Community

Out of the Valley, with Dolls

Out of the Abyss After 25 Years

Remarkable Healing Stories – Dr. Bernie Siegel

The Enlightenment Light and Judgment Mirror

The Power of Love – Anthony

The Gift of Pain – Thanksgiving 2013

Never Give Up – Breaking Through After Six Years

To Become Strong – “ILOHLA”

My Migraines

Can Your Body Language Change Chronic Pain?

Leg Pain Gone with NPD Principles-Carol’s Story

“Finding Health by Letting Go of Hate”

My Feet on Fire

“I Am Not Letting Yesterday Ruin Today”

Ron Salvages His Own Spine Surgery
Expressive Arts Posts
Other Posts
- RUTs – Can’t Take Your Hand Off the Stove? Turn Down the Heat
- Stories of Hope
- We have no protection from mental pain
- Create a Safe Haven – Family
- Accept the Gift of Consciousness – Choice
- Threat Physiology Can’t be Controlled with Behavioral Approaches
- Mental Rigidity – A Core Trait of Many Mental Health Diagnoses
- The Popcorn Machine – Healing RUTS
- Make the Right Decision About Spine Surgery – The Grid
- Everyone Needs Support
- The “Five E’s” of Chronic Pain
- Video 14/19: Chronic Pain: Pain Free is Not Only Possible, it’s Probable.
- Compassion and an Italian Dinner
- Video 8/19: Fusions For LBP Don’t Work
- Problems are Opportunities
- Video 7/19: The Catastrophe Index
- Examiners from the Worker’s Perspective
- Video 4/19: Listen When Your Surgeon Says “No”
- Arm the Worker
- Video 8 of 19: Finding the Source of The Pain
- Video 5 of 19: An Alternative Approach to Chronic Pain & Spine Surgery
- It Really is Upside Down
- “I Want to Believe”
- The Catastrophe Index
- Your Doctor Might Not be Listening
- Worsening Prognosis with Time Off of Work
- Two Kinds of Anger
- Anger Affecting Nerve Pain
- Stress Management Overview
- How am I Going to Get There?
- Where am I Going?
- Where am I?
- Setting Goals with Three Questions
- Anti-Spasm
- Anti-depressants
- Anti-seizure
- Anti-anxiety
- Non-Narcotics
- Narcotics
- Medication Management
Click a Show Section button below to view the posts in that section.
Section 1 - Overview of RUTs
Section 2 - Solving RUTs
Section 3 - The Evolution of RUTs
Section 4 - Consequences of RUTs