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With every word I release, I free my heart and return to myself.
Suicide – A Horrible Way to Escape from Pain
Be Heard to Heal
Evolution of the DOC Framework
Begin Your Healing Journey at Home
Honoring Loss by Living
Create a Safe Haven – Family
Let’s Wake Up
The Gift of Pain – Thanksgiving 2013
“I Want to Believe”
Understand RUTs (Repetitive Unwanted Thoughts) and Solve Them
Connect to Your Dark Side and Heal – Joy will Emerge
Stage 1 - Lay the Foundation
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Step 1 - Learn About Your Pain
Step 2 - Expressive Writing
Step 3 - Active Meditation
Step 4 - Sleep
Step 5 - Don't Share Your Pain
Your Hand Stuck Over the Stove
Verbal “Expressive Writing”
Marsha’s Three Unnecessary Spine Surgeries
David Hanscom’s Mission and Resources
There is an Answer to the Mental Health Crisis
My Descent Into The Abyss
Charley’s Story: Pain Free After 17 Doctors
Processing Anxiety/ Frustration – They are not Going Away
Not Just Another Pain Conference – The 2nd Annual Pain Summit
Eliminate the Word, “Anxiety”
“The Curse of Consciousness” – Trapped by Your Thoughts
Anxiety is the Pain
Common Links to Chronic Disease – RUTs are Relentless
Dynamic Healing
Threat versus Safety Physiology
Let’s Start Now and Learn the Details Later
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Step 1 - Understand the Impact of Anger on Your Life
Step 2 - Acknowledge Your Disguises
Step 3 - Admit Your Victimhood
Step 4 - Choose Not to Remain a Victim
Step 5 - Forgive
Step 6 - Play
“5–3–2” – Processing Anger in Three Steps
Gun Violence – No Action in a Reaction
From “Would Like” to “Should” – The Unenforceable Rules
Grievance Stories
Forgiveness is Not What You Think – Learn It
Healing through Play – It is Safety Physiology
Calming Yourself by Recruiting the Parasympathetic Nervous System (PNS)
From Reactive to Creative
Anger Academy
Blocks to Letting Go of Anger
The Ultimate Victim Role – Perfectionism
The Impact of Anger on Your Life – and Pain
Mortal Combat – These People are Hurting Each Other
Experiencing Safety: Solving Chronic Pain: An Immersive Weekend Retreat
Anger and Illness–Cause and Effect
Three Aspects of Processing Anger
Stage 3 - Move Forward
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Step 1 - Commit to a Daily Practice
Step 2 - Create a Safe Haven - Family
Step 3 - Get Organized
Step 4 - Connect with the Life You Want
Step 5 - Create Your Vision
No One Can Take Away Your Holiday Joy – But You
Do You Feel Safe in Your Own Home?
Your Relationship to Food and Life
Heal by Connecting with Others
The Golden State Warriors and the “Ironic Effect”
Commit to a Daily Practice
Feel the Life You Want
Repetition and Healing
Your Life’s Roadmap – Just Begin Anywhere
Get Organized – Chronic Pain is Complex
Create Your “Personal Business Plan”
Connect with the Life You Want
Exercise Improves Your Health, Quality of Life, and Lifespan
Tune Your Nervous System and Lower Anxiety – You have the controls
Awareness–Ingrained Patterns/ Your Life Lens
Deadly Nature of Pursuing Ego
Stage 4 Posts - Expand Your Consciousness
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Step 1 - Pass Through the "Ring of Fire"
Step 2 - Step Into Your New Life
Step 3 - "Failing" Well
Step 4 - Look Up - Your Spiritual Journey
Step 5 - Giving Back is Healing
“Don’t Worry, Be Happy”
Your “Authentic Self”
Connecting the past and present to the future – Bruce Lipton and David Hanscom
Romanticizing Pirates – Normalizing Suffering and Abuse
Giving Back is Healing
“Better Not Look Down”
Awareness as a Tool – The “Circle of Life”
Not Being Judgmental–Not Possible
The Gift of Anxiety – Your Bodyguard or Prison Guard?
The Bidirectional Interaction between Resilience and Your Immune System
Navigating the Entire Circle of Your Life
Pain: the Gift Nobody Wants
“Play 20” – Create Your Life at Any Age
Thrive and Survive–The Movement
Expanding Your Horizon–Your New Life
Thrive and Survive COVID-19: The Polyvagal Approach
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Step 1 - General Principles - The Grid
Step 2 - The Source of Your Pain
Step 3 - The Impact of Stress on Your Pain and Decision-making
Step 4 - Understanding the Magnitude of the Surgery
Step 5 - Making the Final Surgical Decision
Step 6 - Stories of Surgical Despair
Make the Right Decision About Spine Surgery – The Grid
Phantom Brain Pain – “The Doctor is Missing Something”
Humans Aren’t Data Points – Modern Medicine is Hurting Us
Tulsa Shooting – “The Pit of Despair”
Surgical Stories of Despair
Never Too Late for Hope
Know Your Surgeon – Well
Dashed Hopes
Avoids a Five-level Neck Fusion
Prehab – Optimizing Surgical Outcomes
Eight-Level Spine Fusion? No!
Surgery is the Definitive Solution?
When will the Pain Stop?
Are You Kidding Me? – ILL Advised Spine Surgery
Structural Sciatica Resolved Without Surgery
Am I Operating on Your Pain or Anxiety?
Stage 6 Posts - Procedures
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Step 1 - General Considerations: Magnitude vs. Benefit
Step 2 - Decompressions
Step 3 - Lumbar Fusions
Step 4 - Deformity Surgery
Step 5 - Other Spine Surgeries
Step 6 - Stories of Surgical Despair
Important Posts
Positive Thinking vs. Real-time Reprogramming
Charley’s Story: Pain Free After 17 Doctors
No More Being a Victim – Pay it Forward and Heal
“My Way Out” (of “The Abyss”) – One Patient’s Story
“Ritalins”
“Physician, Heal Thyself” – and She Did
28 Surgeries–”I elected to not be in pain”
Never Too Late for Hope
What Makes Your Book Different?
Moving Forward by Being with her Anxiety
Meditation versus Medicating for Life
“Un-screwed”–Yoga Healing Back Pain
A Couple Re-united
Avoided a 12-hour Spine Fusion and is Free from Chronic Pain
How I Cured my Migraine Headaches
Chronic Neck Pain Gone – DOC Prevents Relapse
The Lone Ranger
Six Feet Apart
Wear A Mask!
The Cellist
Lost and Found
Caught in a Swirl of Change
Florentine Mosaic
Other Posts
- Falling in Love
- Create a Safe Haven – Family
- “I Want to Believe”
- Understand RUTs (Repetitive Unwanted Thoughts) and Solve Them
- RUTs – Can’t Take Your Hand Off the Stove? Turn Down the Heat
- Stories of Hope
- We have no protection from mental pain
- Accept the Gift of Consciousness – Choice
- Threat Physiology Can’t be Controlled with Behavioral Approaches
- Mental Rigidity – A Core Trait of Many Mental Health Diagnoses
- The Popcorn Machine – Healing RUTS
- Make the Right Decision About Spine Surgery – The Grid
- Everyone Needs Support
- The “Five E’s” of Chronic Pain
- Video 14/19: Chronic Pain: Pain Free is Not Only Possible, it’s Probable.
- Compassion and an Italian Dinner
- Video 8/19: Fusions For LBP Don’t Work
- Problems are Opportunities
- Video 7/19: The Catastrophe Index
- Examiners from the Worker’s Perspective
- Video 4/19: Listen When Your Surgeon Says “No”
- Arm the Worker
- Video 8 of 19: Finding the Source of The Pain
- Video 5 of 19: An Alternative Approach to Chronic Pain & Spine Surgery
- It Really is Upside Down
- The Catastrophe Index
- Your Doctor Might Not be Listening
- Worsening Prognosis with Time Off of Work
- Two Kinds of Anger
- Anger Affecting Nerve Pain
- Stress Management Overview
- How am I Going to Get There?
- Where am I Going?
- Where am I?
- Setting Goals with Three Questions
- Anti-Spasm
- Anti-depressants
- Anti-seizure
- Anti-anxiety
- Non-Narcotics
- Narcotics
- Medication Management
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Section 1 - Overview of RUTs
Section 2 - Solving RUTs
Section 3 - The Evolution of RUTs
Section 4 - Consequences of RUTs
Let's Wake Up
Falling in Love
Honoring Loss by Living





























